February 2017 – Ask Kim Column

Dear Kim:  I have an urgent issue! My boyfriend of two years has been hinting that he is going to propose soon and suddenly, although I love him, I am feeling worried, upset, and distracted. Shouldn’t I be elated? I can’t sleep, I can’t eat…this fear is consuming me, like my “gut” is trying to convey something that I cannot pick up.…

January 2017 – Ask Kim Column

Dear Kim:  Five years ago, after our nasty divorce, my ex-husband moved to California and made a killing in real estate. Out of the blue, he just contacted me and told me that he has gone for counseling, has never stopped loving me, and wants us to get back together.…

December 2016 – Ask Kim Column

Dear Kim:  My boss/mentor recently retired from government service so he can pursue a consulting business. For a long time prior to his retirement, I did not want to accept the fact that he is retiring because I became so attached to him. …

November 2016 – Ask Kim Column

Dear Kim:  I’m at a crossroads in my life. I’ve known for many years I needed to move beyond my career in science. I recognize what my passions are and how I wish to develop, yet am stuck with how to get this moving in practical living terms.…